Narcissistic Rage: Why Narcissists Get Angry And Violent

Why narcissists are at high risk of going into a narcissistic rage and becoming very angry and violent.

narcissistic rage

Why narcissists are at high risk of going into a narcissistic rage and becoming very angry and violent.

Narcissistic rage is a real phenomenon, a study finds.

Narcissistic people have a strong inclination to be aggressive, angry and even violent.

This is true across young and old, men and women and even in different countries.

People do not have to be pathological narcissists — even ‘normal’ narcissists show an increased propensity to aggression.

Causes of narcissistic rage

Narcissists do not need to be attacked to become aggressive, however, the risk becomes higher when they are provoked by being insulted or ignored.

Unfortunately, narcissism is a risk factor for violent acts like mass shootings (Bushman, 2017).

Shooters at Columbine, Barbara and Virginia Tech all shared a  sense of narcissistic rage.

This often stems from perceived slights to their fragile sense of self.

Professor Brad Bushman, study co-author, writes on his website:

“…I have come to the conclusion that the most harmful belief people can have is that they are superior to others.

When people believe they are superior to others, they behave very badly.

Every person on this planet is part of the human family; no person is more or less valuable than any other person.”

Narcissistic rage studies

The results come from over 400 different studies including well over 100,000 people.

Ms Sophie Kjaervik, the study’s first author, said:

“The link we found between narcissism and aggression was significant — it was not trivial in size.

The findings have important real-world implications.”

Narcissists tend to be more aggressive in all kinds of ways including verbally, physically, directly and indirectly.

Ms Kjaervik said:

“Individuals who are high in narcissism are not particularly picky when it comes to how they attack others.

That’s a highly important finding now that we live in an online world.”

Almost everyone has some degree of narcissism, even if it is not pathological, said Professor Brad Bushman, study co-author:

“All of us are prone to being more aggressive when we are more narcissistic.

Our results suggest provocation is a key moderator of the link between narcissism and aggression.

Those who are high in narcissism have thin skins, and they will lash out if they feel ignored or disrespected.”

What is a narcissist?

The key trait of a narcissist is an overblown sense of self-importance.

Some psychologists think that narcissists are split into two types:

  • Grandiose narcissists: over-inflated sense of self-importance.
  • Vulnerable narcissists: defensive and see others as hostile. Linked to more anxiety and depression.

Others think that genuine narcissists behave the way they do because of insecurity and not because they are full of themselves.

Grandiose narcissists, meanwhile, are better seen as a variety of psychopath.

The study was published in the journal Psychological Bulletin (Kjærvik & Bushman, 2021).


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