Pain: 2 Best Psychological Techniques For Coping

The short-term strategies that are best for tolerating and reducing pain.

The short-term strategies that are best for tolerating and reducing pain.

Accepting pain is the best way to tolerate it, a study finds.

Compared with three other psychological techniques, accepting pain increases pain tolerance.

The two other techniques tested were distraction and cognitive restructuring.

Distraction, though, emerged as the best way to reduce the intensity of pain, the study also found.

The study’s authors write that…

“…acceptance is intended to disrupt the link between thoughts and behaviors such that participants are willing to tolerate painful stimulation for longer periods of time (with negative thoughts and feelings).”

Distraction, meanwhile, works by refocusing attention:

“Distraction aims to shift the attentional focus away from painful stimulation and thereby to lessen pain intensity.

Some studies indicate that strategies such as distraction or suppression are more effective at reducing pain intensity relative to an acceptance strategy.”

Cognitive restructuring — a technique that involves changing how people think about their pain — was not found to be particularly effective.

How use acceptance

Here is how the authors describe the acceptance strategy:

“It was explained that thoughts often initiate behavior, but that it is also possible to disengage oneself from these thoughts (defusion) through nonjudgmental awareness (mindfulness) or acceptance.

The strategy of regarding thoughts as clouds in the sky was discussed as an example of defusion.

If thoughts can be accepted, they no longer control behavioral tendencies and do not inhibit personal goals.

Within the exercise, participants were asked to imagine that they were experiencing the thermal stimulus and to regard their thoughts as clouds in the sky passing by.”

How to use distraction

Here is how the authors describe the distraction strategy:

“It was explained that distraction can lead to reduced perception of thoughts and feelings.

Attention can work like a spotlight: depending on which thoughts and feelings come into focus, other thoughts and feelings may be ‘‘blanked out.’’

It is possible to distract oneself internally or externally.

Internal distraction may take place via imagination or recalling past experiences, while external distraction may involve increasing attention to environmental stimuli.

Within the exercise, participants were asked to imagine feeling the heat stimulus and to distract themselves by imaging a pleasant scene.”

→ Another useful technique to try is meditation: Reduce Pain With This Mental Practice — In Just 20 Minutes Over Four Days

The study was published in the Journal of Pain (Rief & Glombiewski et al., 2013).

How To Cope With Regrets Using This Writing Instruction

Working on self-esteem is not the best way to move on from regrets.

Working on self-esteem is not the best way to move on from regrets.

“Imagine that you are talking to yourself about this regret from a compassionate and understanding perspective.

What would you say?”

That is the writing instruction used in a study which found that self-compassion helps people move on from regrets.

Being kind to oneself is an excellent way of letting go of past disappointments, embarrassments and failures.

Indeed it may be that with self-compassion, it is possible to feel stronger after life’s inevitable hiccups.

The study’s authors conclude that self-compassion works by increasing acceptance:

“…self-compassion led to greater personal improvement, in part, through heightened acceptance.

Furthermore, self-compassion’s effects on personal improvement were distinct from self-esteem and were not explained by adaptive emotional responses.

Overall, the results suggest that self-compassion spurs positive adjustment in the face of regrets.”

For the research, people were asked to write about regrets they had.

One group were encouraged to think self-compassionately with the following instruction:

“Imagine that you are talking to yourself about this regret from a compassionate and understanding perspective.

What would you say?”

A second group were encouraged to boost their self-esteem with the following instruction:

“Imagine that you are talking to yourself about this regret from a perspective of validating your positive (rather than negative) qualities.”

Both were compared to a control group who did not write about regret.

The results showed it was the people who wrote self-compassionately who felt more self-forgiveness, personal improvement and self-acceptance.

It turned out that accepting your flaws is better than trying to boost yourself up by focusing on positive qualities.

Self-compassion probably works in multiple ways.

Not only does it better allow us to confront our regrets, it also enables us to see them in their true light.

After all, we are all only human.

The study was published in the journal Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin (Zhang & Chen, 2016).

This Emotion Reduces Heart Attack And Stroke Risk (M)

The emotion has also been linked to greater happiness and health, a better immune response, increased empathy and overall better mental health.

The emotion has also been linked to greater happiness and health, a better immune response, increased empathy and overall better mental health.

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