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3 Inner Virtues That Come With Age Which May Surprise You

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On top of wisdom, there are three inner virtues which unexpectedly come with age.

People become more trusting as they get older, a new study finds.

This is just the reverse of the stereotype of cynical, suspicious, grumpy seniors played on by many a sitcom.

And trust is not the only inner virtue that comes with age.

Dr Claudia Haase, one of the study’s authors, said that greater trust may lead to more happiness with age:

“When we think of old age, we often think of decline and loss.

But a growing body of research shows that some things actually get better as we age.

Our new findings show that trust increases as people get older and, moreover, that people who trust more are also more likely to experience increases in happiness over time.”

On top of greater trust and happiness, people often experience more optimism with age.

Dr Haase said:

“We know that older people are more likely to look at the bright side of things.

As we age, we may be more likely to see the best in other people and forgive the little let-downs that got us so wary when we were younger.”

The conclusions come from two groups of people, one huge sample of almost 200,000 people from 83 countries.

This found a connection between aging and trust.

A second group of 1,230 people from the US were followed over time.

Dr Haase explained the results:

“For Millennials, Generation X, and Baby Boomers alike, levels of trust increase as people get older.

People really seem to be ‘growing to trust’ as they travel through their adult years.”

There was no evidence of disadvantages to older people’s more trusting nature.

Dr Michael Poulin, who co-authored the study, said:

“Both studies found a positive association between trust and well-being that was consistent across the life span, suggesting that trust is not a liability in old age.

Our findings suggest that trust may be an important resource for successful development across the life span.”

The study is published in the journal Social Psychological and Personality Science (Poulin and Haase, 2015)

About the author

Psychologist, Jeremy Dean, PhD is the founder and author of PsyBlog. He holds a doctorate in psychology from University College London and two other advanced degrees in psychology.

He has been writing about scientific research on PsyBlog since 2004. He is also the author of the book “Making Habits, Breaking Habits” (Da Capo, 2003) and several ebooks:

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