Some gossip, researchers find, can help protect against the exploitation of nice people and promote the ostracism of bullies.
The findings comes from a new study by Feinberg et al. (2014) who had 216 participants playing a game in groups which involved financial choices.
The game is set up so that people are supposed to work cooperatively with each other, but they can benefit from it by being selfish.
Except in this study, between rounds people changed groups and were allowed to gossip about people in the last group.
This meant that if people were selfish, their reputation got passed on to others and they ended up being ostracised.
With the more selfish people excluded from the game, the groups were able to perform better.
The study’s lead author, Matthew Feinberg, explained:
“Groups that allow their members to gossip sustain cooperation and deter selfishness better than those that don’t. And groups do even better if they can gossip and ostracize untrustworthy members. While both of these behaviors can be misused, our findings suggest that they also serve very important functions for groups and society.”
Those who decided to be more selfish, however, often learned from their mistakes after they were ostracised. The threat served to improve their behaviour.
Co-author Rob Willer explained:
“Those who do not reform their behavior, behaving selfishly despite the risk of gossip and ostracism, tended to be targeted by other group members who took pains to tell future group members about the person’s untrustworthy behavior. These future groups could then detect and exclude more selfish individuals, ensuring they could avoid being taken advantage of.”
This study backs up previous findings which have shown that people are more generous when they know others may talk about their reputation.
Of course not all gossip serves such benevolent purposes–a lot of it is just pernicious.
But along with the irrelevant or damaging information can come crucial indicators about other people’s reputation. Often this sort of informal word would be difficult to get by other means.
Gossiping is good for you
Not only that, but passing on gossip can actually be therapeutic.
A previous study by Feinberg et al. (2012) found that people felt better after passing on information about other people’s antisocial behaviour.
Matthew Feinberg said:
“Spreading information about the person whom they had seen behave badly tended to make people feel better, quieting the frustration that drove their gossip.”
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